True.fruitopiax said:You remind me of one my good looking friends who also gets laid alot.
Basically good looks + confidence (to approach talk to them) + social proof (you always seem to be able to bring them to a party you know off) = laying hbs.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
True.fruitopiax said:You remind me of one my good looking friends who also gets laid alot.
Basically good looks + confidence (to approach talk to them) + social proof (you always seem to be able to bring them to a party you know off) = laying hbs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You're pathetic.L777 said:HB 10? And her friend said "finish quickly"?
Maybe. I dunno.
Whole thing seems a little vague IMO, wouldn't surprise me if it was bollocks.
I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.stand said:You're pathetic.
Hows the approach anxiety? Still struggling with it?
You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?L777 said:I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.
Run along now.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Guy is obsessed with me.. Theres not much I can do, but consistently put him in his place.HandyAndy said:'why cant weeeee be friends......why cant weeeeeee be friends?'
lol, how old are you btw?stand said:Guy is obsessed with me.. Theres not much I can do, but consistently put him in his place.
Lol. You're cute when angry.<blows kiss and turns away>stand said:You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?
Honestly, you're are on my nuts more than some of these girls in my FRs. Step the f.uck back you retarded gimp and appreciate greatness when you read it. I have little to no doubt you're printing off my FRs and putting them on your wall.
You sound like a miserable f.uck in everyone of your posts. You're obviously not getting laid. You're useless. Now run along and patiently wait for my next FR.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Understood.L777 said:WAVES WHITE FLAG
19 years oldHandyAndy said:lol, how old are you btw?
Understood.stand said:I change quotes
Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.brett012 said:I can't understand why L777 is always pissed off when there is nothing even negative in any of stand's posts to get pissed off about. Maybe he can't get laid and that is why he's pissed off at every one.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yeah stand isn't making this stuff up. I don't think anyone could except some adult film director and even they suck ass. So they're real. And besides I think this stuff does help guys. It can show them how to act. Stand doesn't get into every detail because we should be able to see. Stand's good there's no doubt about that. What would make him king is if he could get some virgin who isn't at a party or in that kind of atmosphere initially to sleep with him. I know he got a girl from the mall to go to a party so that can count kind of. But she wasn't a virgin I would imagine. Anyway, good post stand. Keep it up. And damn, only 19. you are a natural I would guess.L777 said:Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.
I only post reports that I feel will help the community, not every single lay. IMO that is boasting, and that was what Stand was doing in this post. Also it sounds fake. Most of his reports do, but that maybe just because of the vague way in which he writes them.
stand said:Absolutely. Why the F not? Chocolate milk is the sh!t. And like mentioned I wanted to try and bang the other girl and it got her in the bed.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.