True.fruitopiax said:You remind me of one my good looking friends who also gets laid alot.
Basically good looks + confidence (to approach talk to them) + social proof (you always seem to be able to bring them to a party you know off) = laying hbs.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
True.fruitopiax said:You remind me of one my good looking friends who also gets laid alot.
Basically good looks + confidence (to approach talk to them) + social proof (you always seem to be able to bring them to a party you know off) = laying hbs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You're pathetic.L777 said:HB 10? And her friend said "finish quickly"?
Maybe. I dunno.
Whole thing seems a little vague IMO, wouldn't surprise me if it was bollocks.
I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.stand said:You're pathetic.
Hows the approach anxiety? Still struggling with it?
You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?L777 said:I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.
Run along now.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Guy is obsessed with me.. Theres not much I can do, but consistently put him in his place.HandyAndy said:'why cant weeeee be friends......why cant weeeeeee be friends?'
lol, how old are you btw?stand said:Guy is obsessed with me.. Theres not much I can do, but consistently put him in his place.
Lol. You're cute when angry.<blows kiss and turns away>stand said:You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?
Honestly, you're are on my nuts more than some of these girls in my FRs. Step the f.uck back you retarded gimp and appreciate greatness when you read it. I have little to no doubt you're printing off my FRs and putting them on your wall.
You sound like a miserable f.uck in everyone of your posts. You're obviously not getting laid. You're useless. Now run along and patiently wait for my next FR.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Understood.L777 said:WAVES WHITE FLAG
19 years oldHandyAndy said:lol, how old are you btw?
Understood.stand said:I change quotes
Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.brett012 said:I can't understand why L777 is always pissed off when there is nothing even negative in any of stand's posts to get pissed off about. Maybe he can't get laid and that is why he's pissed off at every one.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yeah stand isn't making this stuff up. I don't think anyone could except some adult film director and even they suck ass. So they're real. And besides I think this stuff does help guys. It can show them how to act. Stand doesn't get into every detail because we should be able to see. Stand's good there's no doubt about that. What would make him king is if he could get some virgin who isn't at a party or in that kind of atmosphere initially to sleep with him. I know he got a girl from the mall to go to a party so that can count kind of. But she wasn't a virgin I would imagine. Anyway, good post stand. Keep it up. And damn, only 19. you are a natural I would guess.L777 said:Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.
I only post reports that I feel will help the community, not every single lay. IMO that is boasting, and that was what Stand was doing in this post. Also it sounds fake. Most of his reports do, but that maybe just because of the vague way in which he writes them.
stand said:Absolutely. Why the F not? Chocolate milk is the sh!t. And like mentioned I wanted to try and bang the other girl and it got her in the bed.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.