Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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F*ck you wheelchair ,lifting log

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wed - BENCH

50x5X2
55X5X2
65X5
70X4
75X2 (YES finally broke through my plateau)
70X3
65X3X2
55X7
50X5X5

INCLINE
8X3

TRICEPS EXTENSIONS
squats 5X5
 

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Nice job on making progress. Keep up the good work!
 

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Krueg said:
Nice job on making progress. Keep up the good work!
thanks a lot dude :rockon:

sun- squats

50X4X3
60X4
65X5
70X5
75X5

triceps ext.
biceps.

i hadnt eaten anything for the past 24 hours..... :nervous:
 

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on a cut?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im cutting but there was this party on saturday and i was like having a bad hangover, so i just slept till the next day and hit the gym after waking up

anyway, yeah ill be cutting for 6 weeks till july to lose around 3 kgs.

MON ROWS

40X5X3
45X5
50X5
55X5
60X5

rack pulls

50X5
60X4

shrugs 8X3
biceps 8X3
upright rows 8X3

going to gym in june is gonna be tough, since i have a 12 hour shift, standing and sweating at my job,fvcking hate this sh!t. :(
so like,my corpse will get home ... >_____<

i was thinking of somehow fitting my workouts on sunday.saturday and fridays , i mean its just 4 weeks and after that the torture will (hopefully) finish.
 

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im cutting but there was this party on saturday and i was like having a bad hangover, so i just slept till the next day and hit the gym after waking up

anyway, yeah ill be cutting for 6 weeks till july to lose around 3 kgs.

MON ROWS

40X5X3
45X5
50X5
55X5
60X5

rack pulls

50X5
60X4

shrugs 8X3
biceps 8X3
upright rows 8X3

going to gym in june is gonna be tough, since i have a 12 hour shift, standing and sweating at my job,fvcking hate this sh!t. :(
so like,my corpse will get home ... >_____<

i was thinking of somehow fitting my workouts on sunday.saturday and fridays , i mean its just 4 weeks and after that the torture will (hopefully) finish.
I bet that will make it a very effective cut though
 

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Keep it up Switch, the only thing that seperates the champion from the average joe is consistency. Keep smashing them weights!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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switch said:
been hit with the flu , H5N1 i think i got t from a patient :(
i cant even sit >___<

so no training for a while
well that sucks man I had flu a couple of weeks ago - it really sets you down! Dont worry, you can lift when youre better.

Wish you a speedy recovery.
 

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Danzy , well not sure wtf it was but its gone now....nearly

anyway
sun- squats + bench
mon- idk what i did i had too much fever but i think i did some squats

wed bench

40X5
50X10X3
60X5
65X3
70X3
75X1

squats
biceps

Purefilth said:
well that sucks man I had flu a couple of weeks ago - it really sets you down! Dont worry, you can lift when youre better.

Wish you a speedy recovery.
yeah thanks man
 

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Hope squats felt easy!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hope squats felt easy!
thanks although its not as easy as it used to be since im on a cut

mon- rows

60X2
55X3
50X5

deadlifts
55X5X2
60X5

im going to start raining for an upcoming powerlifting meet which is held between the employees at my workplace.
so i want to increase my 1RM in 2 weeks ...any suggestions?

i thought ill use wendler's powerlifting routine but it will be for 2 weeks....so i dont think it will work in such a short time span....

my 1RMs

deadlift =75kgs
squat = 90kgs
bench = 90kgs
 

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DanZy said:
Train your ass off for the next two weeks
I agree, eat right and train hard. but make sure your muscles are well rested before the event.

If you want to raise your max then you're gonna have to lift some heavy azz wieghts - or at least attempt to.
 

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^ thanks a lot guys.does anyone have any experience in these events? i think doing deads,squats and bench at max. weight at the same time is nigh impossible
anyway my goals areto reach
squats = 110
deads= 100
bench=100

fri-squats body weight at 83kgs

50X5X3
60X5X2
65X3
70X3
80X2
80X1
85X1
90X1
95X1 :cheer: yes! new PR 95kgs..... :woo:

bench
50X5X3
60X5X2

biceps 8X3
triceps
 
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sun-
military press
30X5
40X5
50X5
55X3
60-FAIL

BENCH close grip
50X8X3

bench press
50X1
60X1
70X1
80X1
80X1
80X1

deadlift

50X3
80X1
80X1
80X1
80X1

biceps
lat pull downs
triceps
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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