"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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F buddy sees me out on a date.

dustmuffin

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She texted me that she saw me but didn't want to say hi because I was out on a date. She then proceeds to tell me that we need to meet next week with a kissy emote. I didn't see her or would have given her a big hug and said hello.

My date was an attractive woman that weighs about 110 lbs. I really want to get her in bed so I can throw her around. Anyway set up a meeting with the f buddy.

Date with new girl went well will ask her out again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
 

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Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
I think you are correct. She was very anxious to set up another date. Wish she would have said something to me so I could have instilled a bit of dread in my date.
 

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If your looking for something committed/long-term.. Keep the FB around til the new gal asks you to be exclusive or play em both, your call. Its okay if they know other women are in your life and might have competition. The one's with HIGH INTEREST will wanna lock you down! All you gotta do is choose.

Good luck DJ!

-Krueg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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