"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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F buddy sees me out on a date.

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She texted me that she saw me but didn't want to say hi because I was out on a date. She then proceeds to tell me that we need to meet next week with a kissy emote. I didn't see her or would have given her a big hug and said hello.

My date was an attractive woman that weighs about 110 lbs. I really want to get her in bed so I can throw her around. Anyway set up a meeting with the f buddy.

Date with new girl went well will ask her out again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
 
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lizardking82 said:
Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
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I think you are correct. She was very anxious to set up another date. Wish she would have said something to me so I could have instilled a bit of dread in my date.
 
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If your looking for something committed/long-term.. Keep the FB around til the new gal asks you to be exclusive or play em both, your call. Its okay if they know other women are in your life and might have competition. The one's with HIGH INTEREST will wanna lock you down! All you gotta do is choose.

Good luck DJ!

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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