"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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F buddy sees me out on a date.

dustmuffin

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She texted me that she saw me but didn't want to say hi because I was out on a date. She then proceeds to tell me that we need to meet next week with a kissy emote. I didn't see her or would have given her a big hug and said hello.

My date was an attractive woman that weighs about 110 lbs. I really want to get her in bed so I can throw her around. Anyway set up a meeting with the f buddy.

Date with new girl went well will ask her out again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82

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Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
 

dustmuffin

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Don't see reason to worry here. Your values just goes higher in your FBs books, I guess.
I think you are correct. She was very anxious to set up another date. Wish she would have said something to me so I could have instilled a bit of dread in my date.
 

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If your looking for something committed/long-term.. Keep the FB around til the new gal asks you to be exclusive or play em both, your call. Its okay if they know other women are in your life and might have competition. The one's with HIGH INTEREST will wanna lock you down! All you gotta do is choose.

Good luck DJ!

-Krueg
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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