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Experiences with German women?

user252009

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Hey guys,

Any of you got experience with German women? I've been living here for a number of years and have dated 2 so far, neither of them worked out, so just wondering what others' experiences have been like. I especially mean experiences with them while living in Germany.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
 

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
I am assuming English wouldn't qualify since so many know it...in general do they like English speakers/Americans there or no?
 

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
Interesting, they never approach me, must be my looks and my vibe tho - I tend to be cold and unfriendly to strangers
 

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Interesting, they never approach me, must be my looks and my vibe tho - I tend to be cold and unfriendly to strangers
The approaches of german women are mostly indirect. Eye contact and light flirting. Women who approach direct or aggressive are mostly freaks, bitches or drunk.

Being direct in your intentions can make things very easy, because german men are not used to being direct with women. Most women here are often surprised how direct I am with them.

I‘ve never dated a girl above 29 and had only germans. Perhaps I‘ve been lucky so far, but till now they were/are all very loyal, family and relationship oriented, traditional, mostly conservative. I‘m 33 btw.
 

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