"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Experiences with German women?

user252009

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Hey guys,

Any of you got experience with German women? I've been living here for a number of years and have dated 2 so far, neither of them worked out, so just wondering what others' experiences have been like. I especially mean experiences with them while living in Germany.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kotaix

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
 

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
I am assuming English wouldn't qualify since so many know it...in general do they like English speakers/Americans there or no?
 

user252009

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I lived in Germany for about 7 months back in the early 2000s.

German women are def different. They are quite forward, and german people in general are very direct and very friendly. Intellectual conversation goes a long way there as compared to the US.

I was approached by women more there than anywhere else. At times, all it took was to be speaking a foreign language that they didn't understand.
Interesting, they never approach me, must be my looks and my vibe tho - I tend to be cold and unfriendly to strangers
 

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Interesting, they never approach me, must be my looks and my vibe tho - I tend to be cold and unfriendly to strangers
The approaches of german women are mostly indirect. Eye contact and light flirting. Women who approach direct or aggressive are mostly freaks, bitches or drunk.

Being direct in your intentions can make things very easy, because german men are not used to being direct with women. Most women here are often surprised how direct I am with them.

I‘ve never dated a girl above 29 and had only germans. Perhaps I‘ve been lucky so far, but till now they were/are all very loyal, family and relationship oriented, traditional, mostly conservative. I‘m 33 btw.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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