Excuses for "not interested"

[Solomon]

Here are some weird or odd excuses I've heard

"I got too drunk last night and I don't feel well" (Mind you our date was at 8pm and she send that message at 1pm on a Sunday,)

"My mother wants me to help her clean" (this was from a 28 year old woman, 2 years ago)

"My mother is in the hospital"

"My grandmother is in the hospital"

"I'm on my period"

One thing I've learned over the years is the more outlandish the reason no amount of logic, witty response, clapback etc will help you, it's better to delete and block the number and move on. I know the forum has the "Text her a week later b.s." but that never worked for me (maybe 1% of the time) you're better off finding new options or calling a backup plate if you have one.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I wouldn't be surprise if a lot of that excuse were true....lots of girls on that med today

Definitely a more comforting thought than: "I have that effect on people. Be it women I'm pursuing or my own shrink, who was hanging by his neck from a ceiling fan, when I walked into his office for my appointment this morning "

 

[BaronOfHair]

That's how I pull women...

They're either easy to cheer up, or highly resistant to levity in all it's forms, I've found. There's little time no walking the middle parhe with such gals

 

[Lean Baby Face]

"My mother wants me to help her clean" (this was from a 28 year old woman, 2 years ago)

In this day and age where people are feeling unhappier, loneliner, and longing for real human interaction more than ever, I have a really (seriously) hard time believing a woman in her 20s would pick cleaning with her mother (cleaning!) over a sensual, stimulating date with a new man that could result in a nice evening, amazing fulfilling sex, and possibly even a relationship. She must really have been extremely uninterested for whatever reason since picking cleaning over a date (of course she didn't, but young women think men are stupid).

I'm never dating a woman in her 20s again.

 

[Lean Baby Face]

It's a good way to weed out the undesirables.

True, I still highly doubt that the poster whose situation I mentioned (Solomon) is an undesirable in the eyes of a 28 year old woman, I mean he still got into contact with her in the first place.

Either she lost interest for an ocean of ridiculous reasons inside her head (typical for young women) or maybe she got curious for someone else as she probably have at least 10 other men texting her wanting to hook up as well.

 

[BaronOfHair]

"I'm on my period"

To which you could've replied: "Superb, as I'm into role play... You'll be Mina Harker Aka. Happy Hour for the time being, and I'll be Vlad Tepes aka. The Critical Drinker"

 

[Plinco]

I wouldn't be interested in a woman who isn't interested in me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I wouldn't be interested in a woman who isn't interested in me.

100%!!!

 

[nismo-4]

Here are some weird or odd excuses I've heard

"I got too drunk last night and I don't feel well" (Mind you our date was at 8pm and she send that message at 1pm on a Sunday,)

"My mother wants me to help her clean" (this was from a 28 year old woman, 2 years ago)

"My mother is in the hospital"

"My grandmother is in the hospital"

"I'm on my period"

One thing I've learned over the years is the more outlandish the reason no amount of logic, witty response, clapback etc will help you, it's better to delete and block the number and move on. I know the forum has the "Text her a week later b.s." but that never worked for me (maybe 1% of the time) you're better off finding new options or calling a backup plate if you have one.

Send a pic of you out with another woman, or a video of you and another woman having fun and kissing. Women seem to not respond to date requests but do respond to men who can get other women (preselection). It also helps if you post yourself on social media with other hot chicks.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It's my friend's birthday

 

[anonymous12345]

In this day and age where people are feeling unhappier, loneliner, and longing for real human interaction more than ever, I have a really (seriously) hard time believing a woman in her 20s would pick cleaning with her mother (cleaning!) over a sensual, stimulating date with a new man that could result in a nice evening, amazing fulfilling sex, and possibly even a relationship. She must really have been extremely uninterested for whatever reason since picking cleaning over a date (of course she didn't, but young women think men are stupid).

Yeah, from my perspective too it's odd. It's as if they follow a set path and aren't curious, open for suggestions. I approach a lot of "good girls", and it's as if they can't see an alternative universe.

Another possible reason is to dial down one's perception of how attractive one is, a more attractive guy might suceeed.