youngmack
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How does it work? What attracts a girl and what keep the attraction?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EXACTLY how does attraction work?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ilikecharlene
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differs from girl to girl.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
When you look really good to them they will lock eyes with you. Then you can really do no wrong and your confidence will be an emergent property based on your success. You probably don't realize how easy it is and how much you've been missing, but never give up because you will get better at it. Dressing sharp is key.
The key is to slip one dollar bills into their panties.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nismo-4
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It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.
You can't really create attraction.
You can't really create attraction.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
It is the sense of that you can bring value into one' life. Whatever that may be.
You've made some really good posts and I mean no disrespect, but that's not always the case. I asked my now ex-gf if she fell in love with me because of my looks, and she said no. She didn't like me for my material or status things either and I'm not her type(was badboys lol). That's just one case though.nismo-4 said:
Pushing and pulling at the right times and displaying personality has to be an integral part too. I've never had very good looks or money so I don't know the first-hand effects of them. I guess they help. :yes: