"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EXACTLY how does attraction work?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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differs from girl to girl.

But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
 

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When you look really good to them they will lock eyes with you. Then you can really do no wrong and your confidence will be an emergent property based on your success. You probably don't realize how easy it is and how much you've been missing, but never give up because you will get better at it. Dressing sharp is key.
 

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The key is to slip one dollar bills in their panties.
 

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The key is to slip one dollar bills into their panties.

Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.

All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.

You can't really create attraction.
 

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It is the sense of that you can bring value into one' life. Whatever that may be.
 

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nismo-4 said:
It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.

You can't really create attraction.
You've made some really good posts and I mean no disrespect, but that's not always the case. I asked my now ex-gf if she fell in love with me because of my looks, and she said no. She didn't like me for my material or status things either and I'm not her type(was badboys lol). That's just one case though.
Pushing and pulling at the right times and displaying personality has to be an integral part too. I've never had very good looks or money so I don't know the first-hand effects of them. I guess they help. :yes:
 
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