"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EXACTLY how does attraction work?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ilikecharlene

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differs from girl to girl.

But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
 

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When you look really good to them they will lock eyes with you. Then you can really do no wrong and your confidence will be an emergent property based on your success. You probably don't realize how easy it is and how much you've been missing, but never give up because you will get better at it. Dressing sharp is key.
 

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The key is to slip one dollar bills in their panties.
 

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The key is to slip one dollar bills into their panties.

Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.

All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.

You can't really create attraction.
 

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It is the sense of that you can bring value into one' life. Whatever that may be.
 

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nismo-4 said:
It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.

You can't really create attraction.
You've made some really good posts and I mean no disrespect, but that's not always the case. I asked my now ex-gf if she fell in love with me because of my looks, and she said no. She didn't like me for my material or status things either and I'm not her type(was badboys lol). That's just one case though.
Pushing and pulling at the right times and displaying personality has to be an integral part too. I've never had very good looks or money so I don't know the first-hand effects of them. I guess they help. :yes:
 
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