youngmack
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How does it work? What attracts a girl and what keep the attraction?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EXACTLY how does attraction work?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ilikecharlene
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differs from girl to girl.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
When you look really good to them they will lock eyes with you. Then you can really do no wrong and your confidence will be an emergent property based on your success. You probably don't realize how easy it is and how much you've been missing, but never give up because you will get better at it. Dressing sharp is key.
The key is to slip one dollar bills into their panties.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
nismo-4
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It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.
You can't really create attraction.
You can't really create attraction.
PapiChulo
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It is the sense of that you can bring value into one' life. Whatever that may be.
You've made some really good posts and I mean no disrespect, but that's not always the case. I asked my now ex-gf if she fell in love with me because of my looks, and she said no. She didn't like me for my material or status things either and I'm not her type(was badboys lol). That's just one case though.nismo-4 said:
Pushing and pulling at the right times and displaying personality has to be an integral part too. I've never had very good looks or money so I don't know the first-hand effects of them. I guess they help. :yes: