youngmack
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How does it work? What attracts a girl and what keep the attraction?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
EXACTLY how does attraction work?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ilikecharlene
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differs from girl to girl.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
But it's essentially a mixture of looks and being confident.
When you look really good to them they will lock eyes with you. Then you can really do no wrong and your confidence will be an emergent property based on your success. You probably don't realize how easy it is and how much you've been missing, but never give up because you will get better at it. Dressing sharp is key.
The key is to slip one dollar bills into their panties.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
Then you can save your 5, 10 and 20 dollar bills because you are so cheap.
All men would pick up the hottest barmaids, bartenders and dancers if they could. If they could.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
nismo-4
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It's felt easily by displaying very good looks and mad money.
You can't really create attraction.
You can't really create attraction.
PapiChulo
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It is the sense of that you can bring value into one' life. Whatever that may be.
You've made some really good posts and I mean no disrespect, but that's not always the case. I asked my now ex-gf if she fell in love with me because of my looks, and she said no. She didn't like me for my material or status things either and I'm not her type(was badboys lol). That's just one case though.nismo-4 said:
Pushing and pulling at the right times and displaying personality has to be an integral part too. I've never had very good looks or money so I don't know the first-hand effects of them. I guess they help. :yes: