“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hello folks, I am new here

well, here is a story, I broke up with this girl three years ago, then she starts calling me. We start talking, and somewhere down the line I figured it should be easy to get back with her. I start flirting with her, and then she gives me this LBF thing. I took this for about two days, then I went over to her house I talked to her honestly about our relationship and where I wanted it to go, and said that I would be friends, (but I implied distant, if that was all she wanted), and then left her alone for a while to see if she would call me (hoping that she would realize her feelings for me if she had time to think about it). I did not talk to her for three weeks, and then today I called her I told her that I wanted to talk to her in person. I meet her, gave her this 9/11 truth video (that's what I am into) and then left. An hour later, I had set up a date with her.

Now, in all honesty, I don't think this will work exactly the way I want it to. That is no big deal for me because she is not the only one that I am currently after. It should be noted that she is either really good as reverse psychology, or she does not have good self esteem, because she has tried to dump her problems on me, and she does so in a way that occasionally I fall into that trap without realizing it. I also think she is a little messed up in the head.

At this point, I don't care if I actually do get back with here or not. This whole thing is taking up more time and effort than I think is worth, and like I said before, I have other women I am seeking after as of now.

There is of course more to this than what I have written, but for now this is what I believe is relevant. I'll post more if more information is needed.

But for fun, what could I try? This will be like an experiment for me. I'll try a few things if it suits me. I'll report back on the results.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It sounds to me like you dont really want to be with her. If you don't, don't try to confuse her so she will get hurt, spend your time on girls you actually like.
 

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Leave the past in the past. If anything, if you run into her show her that you don't need her at all and have moved on. This will IMMEDIATELY increase her attraction for you. But there's no point because you sound like she isn't even worth the effort.
 

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She's an ex for a reason. Focus your energy on something else that could turn out to be positive instead of another negative.
 

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To clarify, I do want to be with her, but I am not going to be dumb about it either. She is an awesome person, and I really think we have long term potential. It was a matter of fate that it did not work out the first time. I do care about her, but I personally do not think I will actually succeed.

So you guys are saying that I should not try anyway?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Okay, so I suppose this means that the verdict stands. I guess this means I'll invite her parent there as well, and then maybe we will talk about the economy or something. This will hurt me emotionally though.
 
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