"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hello folks, I am new here

well, here is a story, I broke up with this girl three years ago, then she starts calling me. We start talking, and somewhere down the line I figured it should be easy to get back with her. I start flirting with her, and then she gives me this LBF thing. I took this for about two days, then I went over to her house I talked to her honestly about our relationship and where I wanted it to go, and said that I would be friends, (but I implied distant, if that was all she wanted), and then left her alone for a while to see if she would call me (hoping that she would realize her feelings for me if she had time to think about it). I did not talk to her for three weeks, and then today I called her I told her that I wanted to talk to her in person. I meet her, gave her this 9/11 truth video (that's what I am into) and then left. An hour later, I had set up a date with her.

Now, in all honesty, I don't think this will work exactly the way I want it to. That is no big deal for me because she is not the only one that I am currently after. It should be noted that she is either really good as reverse psychology, or she does not have good self esteem, because she has tried to dump her problems on me, and she does so in a way that occasionally I fall into that trap without realizing it. I also think she is a little messed up in the head.

At this point, I don't care if I actually do get back with here or not. This whole thing is taking up more time and effort than I think is worth, and like I said before, I have other women I am seeking after as of now.

There is of course more to this than what I have written, but for now this is what I believe is relevant. I'll post more if more information is needed.

But for fun, what could I try? This will be like an experiment for me. I'll try a few things if it suits me. I'll report back on the results.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It sounds to me like you dont really want to be with her. If you don't, don't try to confuse her so she will get hurt, spend your time on girls you actually like.
 

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Leave the past in the past. If anything, if you run into her show her that you don't need her at all and have moved on. This will IMMEDIATELY increase her attraction for you. But there's no point because you sound like she isn't even worth the effort.
 

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She's an ex for a reason. Focus your energy on something else that could turn out to be positive instead of another negative.
 

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To clarify, I do want to be with her, but I am not going to be dumb about it either. She is an awesome person, and I really think we have long term potential. It was a matter of fate that it did not work out the first time. I do care about her, but I personally do not think I will actually succeed.

So you guys are saying that I should not try anyway?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, so I suppose this means that the verdict stands. I guess this means I'll invite her parent there as well, and then maybe we will talk about the economy or something. This will hurt me emotionally though.
 
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