"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ex Gf With Bpd And Post Hang Over

georgie24

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this thread is dedictaed to the guy who were involved with girls/women who have had BPD and even Bi polar disorder.

My head feels like its decrompressing , no more planning to be tactical with her and her motives, battling my own illusion wich she had adopted to win me over the list goes on.

post up here survivers.

mine was age 21 when we met
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Get over yourself. You went through something dramatic but guess what? Probably most us have gone through something like this. Move forward and don't back track. Quit making threads about it because that is only making you think of it more.
 

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true

feels good to be set free, the mind that is....
 

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major recoil going on in my head right now
 

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You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
+1. Is this Georgie guy trolling?
 

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
:kick:

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Seriously dude, he's right....cut out all the threads about this one girl and move on. Stop thinking about it!
 

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Iceberg said:
I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
 

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DJDamage said:
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
cant object or disagree with that.

Mods please close all current threads please.

My first one set this course so i have some inner work to do, and working with a professional i have no shame in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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