"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this thread is dedictaed to the guy who were involved with girls/women who have had BPD and even Bi polar disorder.

My head feels like its decrompressing , no more planning to be tactical with her and her motives, battling my own illusion wich she had adopted to win me over the list goes on.

post up here survivers.

mine was age 21 when we met
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get over yourself. You went through something dramatic but guess what? Probably most us have gone through something like this. Move forward and don't back track. Quit making threads about it because that is only making you think of it more.
 
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true

feels good to be set free, the mind that is....
 
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major recoil going on in my head right now
 
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You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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+1. Is this Georgie guy trolling?
 
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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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:kick:

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Seriously dude, he's right....cut out all the threads about this one girl and move on. Stop thinking about it!
 
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Iceberg said:
I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
 
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DJDamage said:
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
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cant object or disagree with that.

Mods please close all current threads please.

My first one set this course so i have some inner work to do, and working with a professional i have no shame in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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