"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this thread is dedictaed to the guy who were involved with girls/women who have had BPD and even Bi polar disorder.

My head feels like its decrompressing , no more planning to be tactical with her and her motives, battling my own illusion wich she had adopted to win me over the list goes on.

post up here survivers.

mine was age 21 when we met
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get over yourself. You went through something dramatic but guess what? Probably most us have gone through something like this. Move forward and don't back track. Quit making threads about it because that is only making you think of it more.
 
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true

feels good to be set free, the mind that is....
 
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major recoil going on in my head right now
 
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You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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+1. Is this Georgie guy trolling?
 
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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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:kick:

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Seriously dude, he's right....cut out all the threads about this one girl and move on. Stop thinking about it!
 
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Iceberg said:
I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
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I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
 
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DJDamage said:
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
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cant object or disagree with that.

Mods please close all current threads please.

My first one set this course so i have some inner work to do, and working with a professional i have no shame in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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