"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ex Gf With Bpd And Post Hang Over

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this thread is dedictaed to the guy who were involved with girls/women who have had BPD and even Bi polar disorder.

My head feels like its decrompressing , no more planning to be tactical with her and her motives, battling my own illusion wich she had adopted to win me over the list goes on.

post up here survivers.

mine was age 21 when we met
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get over yourself. You went through something dramatic but guess what? Probably most us have gone through something like this. Move forward and don't back track. Quit making threads about it because that is only making you think of it more.
 

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true

feels good to be set free, the mind that is....
 

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major recoil going on in my head right now
 

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You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
+1. Is this Georgie guy trolling?
 

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Iceberg said:
You have 7 threads on the first page of this forum.

Seven threads about the same girl.

I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
:kick:

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Seriously dude, he's right....cut out all the threads about this one girl and move on. Stop thinking about it!
 

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Iceberg said:
I'm starting to think that you're the BPD and the girl is the normal one for getting rid of you.
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
 

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DJDamage said:
I agree with the first part.

When you are with a BPD for the long haul they end up infecting you with their craziness so when they happily dump you for another sucker, you are the one that is going to remain with their depression, anxiety and mood swings.

After playing a therapist for that girl you may need one yourself.
cant object or disagree with that.

Mods please close all current threads please.

My first one set this course so i have some inner work to do, and working with a professional i have no shame in.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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