Everytime I Do A Cold Approach...

[dadmonson]

I feel like a bum asking for 5 dollars to support my drug habit. Anybody else feel this way or has felt this way? Will this feeling go away the more I cold approach?

 

[NobodyCares1]

I feel like a bum asking for 5 dollars to support my drug habit. Anybody else feel this way or has felt this way? Will this feeling go away the more I cold approach?

I do feel a bit nervous when doing cold approach but I never feel like that. I just want to chat and meet new people that's all, nothing wrong or weird about that and that's the mindset you should have. You don't approach her because you want or even worse need something from her, you do it for fun, you do it to show her a good time, you're the giver not her.

 

[marmel75]

Think this says more about what you feel your self worth is than the cold approach. You don't feel like you are good enough to get these women, hence you probably don't.

 

[dadmonson]

I do feel a bit nervous when doing cold approach but I never feel like that. I just want to chat and meet new people that's all, nothing wrong or weird about that and that's the mindset you should have. You don't approach her because you want or even worse need something from her, you do it for fun, you do it to show her a good time, you're the giver not her.

You got it. This is the mindset you need to have.

Think this says more about what you feel your self worth is than the cold approach. You don't feel like you are good enough to get these women, hence you probably don't.

I guess I don't really feel the way I describe in my original post. It is just that they treat me that way. It's like the girls don't want to be bothered. They always seem like they are pressing for time and try to distance themselves from me.

 

[evan12]

in cold approch you have to be social person , and have a good look , unsocial guys usually fail to start a conversation without being weird