It's just my opinion and I may be alone on this but maybe you guys on here shouldn't next too fast. Whenever a girl doesn't show extremely high interest towards you, everyone seems to think she doesn't like you anymore and then the girl gets "NEXTED". Maybe she's having a bad day or she's tired you never know. Even if a girl likes someone can you really expect them to worship them all the time. All I'm saying is that instead of nexting so fast, just wait it out a little while just to be sure she's not interested. It could keep you in a great relationship you almost unexpectedly ended.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Everyone on here seems to "next" too soon
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ImmortalDragon
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
The man knows what hes talking about. Some girls THINK they are being blatently obvious about their interest/intentions but are actually quite ambiguous. Dont be insecure, and drop your targets at the first sign of hell or high water.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Lost
Master Don Juan
what does the phrase "hell or high water" mean?
trouble? adversity?
trouble? adversity?