It's just my opinion and I may be alone on this but maybe you guys on here shouldn't next too fast. Whenever a girl doesn't show extremely high interest towards you, everyone seems to think she doesn't like you anymore and then the girl gets "NEXTED". Maybe she's having a bad day or she's tired you never know. Even if a girl likes someone can you really expect them to worship them all the time. All I'm saying is that instead of nexting so fast, just wait it out a little while just to be sure she's not interested. It could keep you in a great relationship you almost unexpectedly ended.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Everyone on here seems to "next" too soon
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ImmortalDragon
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
The man knows what hes talking about. Some girls THINK they are being blatently obvious about their interest/intentions but are actually quite ambiguous. Dont be insecure, and drop your targets at the first sign of hell or high water.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lost
Master Don Juan
what does the phrase "hell or high water" mean?
trouble? adversity?
trouble? adversity?