It's just my opinion and I may be alone on this but maybe you guys on here shouldn't next too fast. Whenever a girl doesn't show extremely high interest towards you, everyone seems to think she doesn't like you anymore and then the girl gets "NEXTED". Maybe she's having a bad day or she's tired you never know. Even if a girl likes someone can you really expect them to worship them all the time. All I'm saying is that instead of nexting so fast, just wait it out a little while just to be sure she's not interested. It could keep you in a great relationship you almost unexpectedly ended.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Everyone on here seems to "next" too soon
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImmortalDragon
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
The man knows what hes talking about. Some girls THINK they are being blatently obvious about their interest/intentions but are actually quite ambiguous. Dont be insecure, and drop your targets at the first sign of hell or high water.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lost
Master Don Juan
what does the phrase "hell or high water" mean?
trouble? adversity?
trouble? adversity?