It's just my opinion and I may be alone on this but maybe you guys on here shouldn't next too fast. Whenever a girl doesn't show extremely high interest towards you, everyone seems to think she doesn't like you anymore and then the girl gets "NEXTED". Maybe she's having a bad day or she's tired you never know. Even if a girl likes someone can you really expect them to worship them all the time. All I'm saying is that instead of nexting so fast, just wait it out a little while just to be sure she's not interested. It could keep you in a great relationship you almost unexpectedly ended.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Everyone on here seems to "next" too soon
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImmortalDragon
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Francisco d'Anconia
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TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
The man knows what hes talking about. Some girls THINK they are being blatently obvious about their interest/intentions but are actually quite ambiguous. Dont be insecure, and drop your targets at the first sign of hell or high water.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
what does the phrase "hell or high water" mean?
trouble? adversity?
trouble? adversity?