It's just my opinion and I may be alone on this but maybe you guys on here shouldn't next too fast. Whenever a girl doesn't show extremely high interest towards you, everyone seems to think she doesn't like you anymore and then the girl gets "NEXTED". Maybe she's having a bad day or she's tired you never know. Even if a girl likes someone can you really expect them to worship them all the time. All I'm saying is that instead of nexting so fast, just wait it out a little while just to be sure she's not interested. It could keep you in a great relationship you almost unexpectedly ended.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everyone on here seems to "next" too soon
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ImmortalDragon
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Francisco d'Anconia
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TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
The man knows what hes talking about. Some girls THINK they are being blatently obvious about their interest/intentions but are actually quite ambiguous. Dont be insecure, and drop your targets at the first sign of hell or high water.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lost
Master Don Juan
what does the phrase "hell or high water" mean?
trouble? adversity?
trouble? adversity?