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Master Don Juan
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Create structured schedules to engage in game, go to the same places at the same times, use familiarity to counter approach anxiety.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Smash or #next!what would it be?
Mine would be, and it literary took me 25 years to get this, the "motif" of my life is me giving time to women who were in the end undeserving of my time.
Do not let your ego or self esteem control you when it comes to women. do not **** or date women for the sake of doing it, or at the very least, be careful of who you poke around with, because being with a crap women is 10x more damaging than being alone.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what she says, means nothing most of the time.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This guy is spot on & funnyHaha i had never heard of that guy before but he speaks a lot of sense
Nah, our experience comes from learning from our mistakes and failures and by observing such in others. Where is your evidence that knowledge and wisdom is transmitted through our genes?First piece advice - Don’t be gay.
Second piece of advice - Listen with you eyes. We live in a world of lies. Also, Listen to your intuition - your intuition is the voice of your ancestors guiding you. They lived, gained experience and died. They passed it on to you. All of their lives and experiences live on inside you.
There is a concept called epigenetics. There is ongoing research on the subject.Nah, our experience comes from learning from our mistakes and failures and by observing such in others. Where is your evidence that knowledge and wisdom is transmitted through our genes?
Let me know when this "concept" becomes a scientifically proven fact then. As for me, I put my faith in myself -- not my ancestors.There is a concept called epigenetics. There is ongoing research on the subject.
Instincts don't necessarily mean I inherited them from my ancestors, but rather my species' nature.there’s plenty of evidence. You inherit all your instincts. You inherit your personality too. You inherit a fear of snakes and a hatred of loose women (paternity assurance).
You don’t know much about how these things work, young padawan
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.