"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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everyone, if you had one peice of advice to pass on to someone about women...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Von

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What the heck are you doing here with her
 

IKO69

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Don't be afraid to try and failure is good- it forces to re-evaluate what you did wrong. You can only grow from failure ----- unless you are a mental case!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Never be fearful of approaching women. Most women will not come up to you, I don't care how good looking you are or how much money you have.

Never fear rejection, just move on to the next.
 

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Women have capacity to communicate on levels men didn't even knew existed

Men always want to communicate logically ......women rarely do

When you learn to communicate with a woman outside of logic then you will start understanding them
 

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i have never been in a relationship and almost never have sex with the same girl more then once so my advice is all about getting laid and nothing else.

the best way to get laid as fast and as much as possible with the women you want is this:

- Find a natural (NOT someone in seduction community) in your city who is similar height,race,looks level,etc....as you who is really good with women and gets laid a lot. start hanging out with this guy as much as possible whenever he goes out to meet women and simply copy everything he does.

you will make more progress in 2 weeks doing this then you will in 2 years of any other approach.

this is a 100% guaranteed way to succeed and as long as you live in a city with at least 300 000 people you should be able to find a guy similar to you who gets laid a lot.
 

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what would it be?


Mine would be, and it literary took me 25 years to get this, the "motif" of my life is me giving time to women who were in the end undeserving of my time.

Do not let your ego or self esteem control you when it comes to women. do not **** or date women for the sake of doing it, or at the very least, be careful of who you poke around with, because being with a crap women is 10x more damaging than being alone.
Smash or #next!
 

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Stop expecting women to do the logical thing. Women don’t know what logic is. Men naturally think that when they see a girl who is cute, they should go get her attention and talk to her. Women don’t follow this train of thought. Also, women’s sense of loyalty is nonexistent for the first little bit (the first 10 dates, etc.) and after that it’s usually pretty low still. You need to be constantly bringing more to the table in order to keep a woman.
Also, if you are ever giving more than 50% of the effort into a relationship, you need to have a talk with your partner. If you’re giving over 75% (and they are only giving 25%) get the hell out of there quick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrskinnypantz

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ultimately , its your choice how you choose to go about women
IMO, they are around when you're up
and on to the next when you're down
is that always tru? no
but you decide for your own self your own self whats your best interest
being with a woman who doesnt give a **** about you is a thousand times more damaging IMO
but nobody can ever tell us that , we have to reach that conclusion on our own to really see it
 

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They're full of emotions. Best not to pay too much attention to them; unless they are in physical or mental trouble.
 

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Never truly love a woman, when you do, your frame has gone. She will never love you in the same way & will suck the life from you until you are spent. Always watch her actions, what she says, means nothing most of the time. Control your finances with her, she will drain your bank account & get you into serious debt. Frame is difficult to control, check up on it regularly. If your frame is slipping take back control by covert means, add some dread. Make a woman work for your attention not the other way around. If you treat her like a Queen & she will treat you like a subject. Avoid social media chicks no matter how good they look. They are not posing for you..!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First piece advice - Don’t be gay.

Second piece of advice - Listen with you eyes. We live in a world of lies. Also, Listen to your intuition - your intuition is the voice of your ancestors guiding you. They lived, gained experience and died. They passed it on to you. All of their lives and experiences live on inside you.
Nah, our experience comes from learning from our mistakes and failures and by observing such in others. Where is your evidence that knowledge and wisdom is transmitted through our genes?
 

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Nah, our experience comes from learning from our mistakes and failures and by observing such in others. Where is your evidence that knowledge and wisdom is transmitted through our genes?
There is a concept called epigenetics. There is ongoing research on the subject.
 

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There is a concept called epigenetics. There is ongoing research on the subject.
Let me know when this "concept" becomes a scientifically proven fact then. As for me, I put my faith in myself -- not my ancestors.
 

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there’s plenty of evidence. You inherit all your instincts. You inherit your personality too. You inherit a fear of snakes and a hatred of loose women (paternity assurance).

You don’t know much about how these things work, young padawan
Instincts don't necessarily mean I inherited them from my ancestors, but rather my species' nature.

And no, I built my personality from the ground up. I know I did not inherit this. It was through design, will and persistence that I built it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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