"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ever had TOO many women?

The Deacon

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Lol, no such thing for me. My ancestors were polygamists. It's in my blood.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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guru1000 said:
This is why everyone should understand the concept of NEXTing.
Nexting and qualifying should go hand and hand. The problem isn't too many women (most of the time), it's too many of the wrong women.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .

But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you :D .

If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves :D .
 

mackdaddy27

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L777 said:
At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.

Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?

Not boasting, honest. :rolleyes:
lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Metaphysical

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .

But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you :D .

If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves :D .
i'm not needy even if i'm single but okay
 

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What do you mean how do you get rid of them?

Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.
 
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