The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Lol, no such thing for me. My ancestors were polygamists. It's in my blood.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nexting and qualifying should go hand and hand. The problem isn't too many women (most of the time), it's too many of the wrong women.guru1000 said:This is why everyone should understand the concept of NEXTing.
lolL777 said:At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.
Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?
Not boasting, honest.![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i'm not needy even if i'm single but okayDaddy The Pimp said:Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you.
If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves.