The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Lol, no such thing for me. My ancestors were polygamists. It's in my blood.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ever had TOO many women?
- Thread starter Metaphysical
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nexting and qualifying should go hand and hand. The problem isn't too many women (most of the time), it's too many of the wrong women.guru1000 said:
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
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If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
.If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
.mackdaddy27
Senior Don Juan
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lolL777 said:At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.
Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?
Not boasting, honest.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
i'm not needy even if i'm single but okayDaddy The Pimp said:Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
SparkleMotion
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What do you mean how do you get rid of them?
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.