The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Lol, no such thing for me. My ancestors were polygamists. It's in my blood.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ever had TOO many women?
- Thread starter Metaphysical
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nexting and qualifying should go hand and hand. The problem isn't too many women (most of the time), it's too many of the wrong women.guru1000 said:
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
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If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
.If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
.mackdaddy27
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lolL777 said:At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.
Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?
Not boasting, honest.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
i'm not needy even if i'm single but okayDaddy The Pimp said:Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
SparkleMotion
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What do you mean how do you get rid of them?
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.