The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Lol, no such thing for me. My ancestors were polygamists. It's in my blood.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ever had TOO many women?
- Thread starter Metaphysical
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nexting and qualifying should go hand and hand. The problem isn't too many women (most of the time), it's too many of the wrong women.guru1000 said:
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
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If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
.If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
.mackdaddy27
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lolL777 said:At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.
Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?
Not boasting, honest.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
i'm not needy even if i'm single but okayDaddy The Pimp said:Its interesting , sometimes i have 3-4 girls sometimes 0 .
But having 3-4 girls its great advantage in PU thing because your no longer needy . You also are confident because you can make 3-4 girls chase you
If you want answer how to get rid of them LJBF them . Best smooth way IMO .
But i wouldnt LJBF . I would just start getting cold to some of them . Choose who you wanna keep and the others , just be cold . One word answer , no too much contact , avoiding them would give them a sign to go and fvck themselves
SparkleMotion
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What do you mean how do you get rid of them?
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.
Stop answering the phone every time she calsl. Space out your interactions, if not discontinue them.