chancer
Senior Don Juan
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No.
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Only say that to girls you want to get into the friend-zone with ... Otherwise, only say something that would direct her to being exclusive with you specifically.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why would you? Ohhhhh, it's an AFC thing... Got'cha...Originally posted by chancer
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
TheNonPedant
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nope
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sybertiger
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Naw, you should know if you listen to her. Asking her directly is a really weak move, and in general, if she likes you, the answer is no.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
not that i'm thinking about asking, or like anyone any great deal. Just poped in my head from overhearing my cousin talk to her friend...