chancer
Senior Don Juan
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
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Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys?
- Thread starter chancer
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No.
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Only say that to girls you want to get into the friend-zone with ... Otherwise, only say something that would direct her to being exclusive with you specifically.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why would you? Ohhhhh, it's an AFC thing... Got'cha...Originally posted by chancer
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
TheNonPedant
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nope
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sybertiger
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Naw, you should know if you listen to her. Asking her directly is a really weak move, and in general, if she likes you, the answer is no.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
not that i'm thinking about asking, or like anyone any great deal. Just poped in my head from overhearing my cousin talk to her friend...