chancer
Senior Don Juan
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No.
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Only say that to girls you want to get into the friend-zone with ... Otherwise, only say something that would direct her to being exclusive with you specifically.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why would you? Ohhhhh, it's an AFC thing... Got'cha...Originally posted by chancer
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
TheNonPedant
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nope
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
sybertiger
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Naw, you should know if you listen to her. Asking her directly is a really weak move, and in general, if she likes you, the answer is no.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
not that i'm thinking about asking, or like anyone any great deal. Just poped in my head from overhearing my cousin talk to her friend...