chancer
Senior Don Juan
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys?
- Thread starter chancer
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No.
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
What i asked last time i wanted to go exclusive with a girl was:
Me: "Do you want me to be exclusive with you, only dating you?"
Her: "Of course i want, what do you think? Of course i'm not, i'm with you!! Are you dating other girls, or thinking off??"
smooth
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Only say that to girls you want to get into the friend-zone with ... Otherwise, only say something that would direct her to being exclusive with you specifically.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why would you? Ohhhhh, it's an AFC thing... Got'cha...Originally posted by chancer
Ever ask a girl if she's seeing any other guys after dating for for a while?
TheNonPedant
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nope
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sybertiger
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Naw, you should know if you listen to her. Asking her directly is a really weak move, and in general, if she likes you, the answer is no.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
not that i'm thinking about asking, or like anyone any great deal. Just poped in my head from overhearing my cousin talk to her friend...