"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ESP numbers test

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Hi. Can someone please explain to me how the ESP numbers test works?

And yes, I have tried a search but appearently it's under the minimum word length or some ****...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Now there are two way to run it:

Ask her if she believes in ESP.

At which point, you tell her you know a little bit about it and you can give her an ESP test.

Take her by the hands, and tell her to think of a number. Tell her to look into your eyes and think real hard.

Wait a few seconds. And act like you've got it! You say '7' because that's what most people choose. She'll freak.

If she doesn't say '7' tell her she didn't think hard enough.

The alternate version is you write down 7 and 'send' her the number. When she says '7' you show her the paper.
 

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And if she picks any number other than 7, you end up looking lame.

Routines and canned stuff is not the way to go.

Not to mention, there's a million guys out there doing that routine after reading "The Game"
 

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I'm going to post a video of the proper way of doing it. If you do it well - and time it well it works about 90% of the time.

I use it ALL the time... and i do entire groups and cause them to "all think the same thing"

It's cool.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint

Not to mention, there's a million guys out there doing that routine after reading "The Game"
Don't overestimate the nomber of people who actually go out of their way to read Strauss' book.

Hell, I'm in school, have a pretty chill course load (compared to some people) and still had to wait until Thanksgiving break to actually take some time and read the book, which I was curious about.

Do you think girls who work or study have time to read this book, unrelated to most of the stuff they already have to do, let alone linger and think about the "jealous girlfriend opener" or "cold readings?

Just a thought.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the problem with the ESP test is that if you get it wrong then you're stalled. there are better tests i think. like ones that associate colors with objects.

like that test that makes you think of the color red and then name a tool. most people pick hammer. i think.... :eek:
 

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If you fail the esp test use it to tease her.... you pick 4 and she's thinking 2....

You: Look at her really shocked! say "OMG I can't talk to you. I have to go - we can't be friends. Sorry ...its just that you picked 2. . . statistically 90% of the ppl who pick 2 end up being serial killers or stalkers."

HB: NONONO!!! hahahah ROFL.

You: Ok, let me try another test. Maybe you can redeem yourself. Then do the trust test. Get her to hold out her hands face down and yours face up palms touching. Squeeze her hands, if she squeezes back, it's an IOI. Lower your hands... does she follow. Yes? It's an IOI. She's passed your "trust" test. Tell her she's only made it back to par and you're gonna keep your eye on her.

So in a matter of seconds you've displayed higher value, humour and gotten her to give you IOI's.

Get her opinion on something... tease her for it. Then say she's awesome and it's just like being on "the view".

She will laugh - they always do.

Bust on her for it. "Omg thats so cute, your nose wiggles! omg hahah!"

I've NEVER done that to a girl who hasn't covered up her nose and blushed. It's like chick crack.

Isolate her... run a story on her and get talking.
Do the evolution phase shift routine. Kiss her, number close her right after the kiss (don't wait) and go back to her friends w/ her. Do not makeout if you want it to go further than 1 night.

-- this is a combination of Mystery, Style and David D... It's like carrying an atom bomb in your pocket.
 

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getting it wrong

Exactly! If you get it wrong and she said she believed in ESP,, you laugh at her! It works great. It's a routine I use all the time. Really helps things get started on the right foot. It's sort of like a gimmick for guys who are a little unsure of how to go about a convo but want to break out of their shell.

This had laid to ONSs for me on several occasions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by syncmaster
and i do entire groups and cause them to "all think the same thing"

Like, why is this guy wasting his time with some lame trick trying to impress us? :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Don't overestimate the nomber of people who actually go out of their way to read Strauss' book.

Hell, I'm in school, have a pretty chill course load (compared to some people) and still had to wait until Thanksgiving break to actually take some time and read the book, which I was curious about.

Do you think girls who work or study have time to read this book, unrelated to most of the stuff they already have to do, let alone linger and think about the "jealous girlfriend opener" or "cold readings?

Just a thought.
Keep in mind, the book hit # 1 on Amazon.com, so it sold alot of copies, not to mention, Strauss mentioned in the book that the routines were getting stale as women in every big city were hearing the same stuff over and over.

Word travels fast, especially amongst women who have the same lines used on them repeatedly.

Just about every hot chick in The Marina (pickup spot in San Fran) has had some aspiring PUA run "the cube" on them.

Gimmicks, routines, tricks are crutches.

Throw them away and seperate yourselves from the rest of the mASF robots out there.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
............this is why i love mystery's lounge with our seceret routines.


Love,
Smooth
And in a year or so, those routines will be "played out" and it'll be time to learn new one's.

Or, one can always fix their inner game, be a man, be confident, and have a strong frame and not have to use tricks, gimmicks, routines etc...

Does Mystery make you guys sign an NDA before you can access his lounge?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by syncmaster
You people ask for routines then flame when you get them. What the fvck do you want?
Routines are fine for newbies, much like training wheels.

But too many guys end up with routine depency and it keeps them from progressive.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Routines are fine for newbies, much like training wheels.

But too many guys end up with routine depency and it keeps them from progressive.
I use routines - does that make me a newbie? Mystery uses routines, so does style and TD... are they all newbies?
 

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False argument.

Regardless, the point is that depending on routines will keep you from progressing.

Yes, Mystery and TD use routines.

But reading Style's book, neither are guys I want to emulate.

Mystery has trouble keeping relationships, and TD is not only a weasel, but apparantly not much of a PUA either.

And if you read Sytle's book, you'll know that running game and routines didn't get him what he wanted.

Ask yourself - do you want to become a PUA, or a DJ?

Anyone can learn and run routines.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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