"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stark said:
well actually things went pretty well. i picked her up and had a normal convo. then she asked me what i wanted to do later this week and then said tuesday or thurs is good i picked tues. then we somehow got on the topic of sex and talked about that untill i dropped her off. she said nothing about the friends.
STRIKE WHILE THE IRON'S HOT!!! :up:

This feeling won't last forever...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok fine. i guess i had to learn the hard way. and i did infact have to. but now i know shes just going to ljbf me. she texts me today saying i should go after this chick i dont even like. i tell her i dont rly like her then she says well ill hook you up with somone who do you like? and i havnt replied yet cas im honestly rly mad, sad, and confused at the same time. 2 weeks ago she was excited about us going out now completely the opposite. do i take her help or do i throw it in her face?
 

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I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.

This could be the best thing for you.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.

This could be the best thing for you.


IMHO if you take her planned hookup, you've lost the original girl, period. She is doing this because she knows you're into her and she's telling you she wants you to forget about her and date other people, and I'm glad you're mad because it shows you recognize this. I think the odds of you liking the girl you get hooked up with are low. When a girl agrees to let herself be set up by her friend with a guy who her friend is rejecting, it shows her standards are relatively low and there's probably a reason for that. My advice: Recognize that your logic about this girl is blinded by your neediness and you've placed this chick way the **** up on a ****ing pedestal and you need to get yourself back to reality. Admit that it's over, that she wasn't nearly as great as you've been imagining, and game other girls.
 

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ya she said to name a chick that i liked.... so i could get somone i like but doubt it i probably should just ignore and next her ass
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stark said:
ya she said to name a chick that i liked.... so i could get somone i like but doubt it i probably should just ignore and next her ass
that a boy starky. way to be.
 
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