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STRIKE WHILE THE IRON'S HOT!!!Stark said:
This feeling won't last forever...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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This feeling won't last forever...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ok fine. i guess i had to learn the hard way. and i did infact have to. but now i know shes just going to ljbf me. she texts me today saying i should go after this chick i dont even like. i tell her i dont rly like her then she says well ill hook you up with somone who do you like? and i havnt replied yet cas im honestly rly mad, sad, and confused at the same time. 2 weeks ago she was excited about us going out now completely the opposite. do i take her help or do i throw it in her face?
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I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.
This could be the best thing for you.
This could be the best thing for you.
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MacAvoy said:
IMHO if you take her planned hookup, you've lost the original girl, period. She is doing this because she knows you're into her and she's telling you she wants you to forget about her and date other people, and I'm glad you're mad because it shows you recognize this. I think the odds of you liking the girl you get hooked up with are low. When a girl agrees to let herself be set up by her friend with a guy who her friend is rejecting, it shows her standards are relatively low and there's probably a reason for that. My advice: Recognize that your logic about this girl is blinded by your neediness and you've placed this chick way the **** up on a ****ing pedestal and you need to get yourself back to reality. Admit that it's over, that she wasn't nearly as great as you've been imagining, and game other girls.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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that a boy starky. way to be.Stark said: