nismo-4
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STRIKE WHILE THE IRON'S HOT!!!Stark said:
This feeling won't last forever...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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This feeling won't last forever...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ok fine. i guess i had to learn the hard way. and i did infact have to. but now i know shes just going to ljbf me. she texts me today saying i should go after this chick i dont even like. i tell her i dont rly like her then she says well ill hook you up with somone who do you like? and i havnt replied yet cas im honestly rly mad, sad, and confused at the same time. 2 weeks ago she was excited about us going out now completely the opposite. do i take her help or do i throw it in her face?
MacAvoy
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I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.
This could be the best thing for you.
This could be the best thing for you.
punchitchewy
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MacAvoy said:
IMHO if you take her planned hookup, you've lost the original girl, period. She is doing this because she knows you're into her and she's telling you she wants you to forget about her and date other people, and I'm glad you're mad because it shows you recognize this. I think the odds of you liking the girl you get hooked up with are low. When a girl agrees to let herself be set up by her friend with a guy who her friend is rejecting, it shows her standards are relatively low and there's probably a reason for that. My advice: Recognize that your logic about this girl is blinded by your neediness and you've placed this chick way the **** up on a ****ing pedestal and you need to get yourself back to reality. Admit that it's over, that she wasn't nearly as great as you've been imagining, and game other girls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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that a boy starky. way to be.Stark said: