nismo-4
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STRIKE WHILE THE IRON'S HOT!!!Stark said:
This feeling won't last forever...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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This feeling won't last forever...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ok fine. i guess i had to learn the hard way. and i did infact have to. but now i know shes just going to ljbf me. she texts me today saying i should go after this chick i dont even like. i tell her i dont rly like her then she says well ill hook you up with somone who do you like? and i havnt replied yet cas im honestly rly mad, sad, and confused at the same time. 2 weeks ago she was excited about us going out now completely the opposite. do i take her help or do i throw it in her face?
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I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.
This could be the best thing for you.
This could be the best thing for you.
punchitchewy
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MacAvoy said:
IMHO if you take her planned hookup, you've lost the original girl, period. She is doing this because she knows you're into her and she's telling you she wants you to forget about her and date other people, and I'm glad you're mad because it shows you recognize this. I think the odds of you liking the girl you get hooked up with are low. When a girl agrees to let herself be set up by her friend with a guy who her friend is rejecting, it shows her standards are relatively low and there's probably a reason for that. My advice: Recognize that your logic about this girl is blinded by your neediness and you've placed this chick way the **** up on a ****ing pedestal and you need to get yourself back to reality. Admit that it's over, that she wasn't nearly as great as you've been imagining, and game other girls.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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that a boy starky. way to be.Stark said: