nismo-4
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STRIKE WHILE THE IRON'S HOT!!!Stark said:
This feeling won't last forever...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
EMERGENCY as in -30 mins
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This feeling won't last forever...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ok fine. i guess i had to learn the hard way. and i did infact have to. but now i know shes just going to ljbf me. she texts me today saying i should go after this chick i dont even like. i tell her i dont rly like her then she says well ill hook you up with somone who do you like? and i havnt replied yet cas im honestly rly mad, sad, and confused at the same time. 2 weeks ago she was excited about us going out now completely the opposite. do i take her help or do i throw it in her face?
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I would play it cool and if she wants to hook you up with some other girls, I would let her. You've already stiked out with her, might as well take some free hook ups.
This could be the best thing for you.
This could be the best thing for you.
punchitchewy
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MacAvoy said:
IMHO if you take her planned hookup, you've lost the original girl, period. She is doing this because she knows you're into her and she's telling you she wants you to forget about her and date other people, and I'm glad you're mad because it shows you recognize this. I think the odds of you liking the girl you get hooked up with are low. When a girl agrees to let herself be set up by her friend with a guy who her friend is rejecting, it shows her standards are relatively low and there's probably a reason for that. My advice: Recognize that your logic about this girl is blinded by your neediness and you've placed this chick way the **** up on a ****ing pedestal and you need to get yourself back to reality. Admit that it's over, that she wasn't nearly as great as you've been imagining, and game other girls.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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that a boy starky. way to be.Stark said: