Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Eating much, without going to the gym

Freestyler

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Well I'm a scrawny guy and due to a problem I have with my back I can't go to the gym for about the next 5-6 months.

Right now (because i was working out before) I have a little definition and quite no fat as i'm very scrawny (5'7'' and 132 pounds).

My aim (according to my height) is to get my body about like Tom Cruise's) and I want to be about 172 pounds.

My question is for those months I can't train with weights should I start eating about 3000 calories a day in order to gain weight? Will I get bigger? I'll probably as well start doing some pushups.. Should I concider to add to those callories a whey protein?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aiken_Drum

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You are gonna get fat like a pig if you don't lift seriously.
Talk to a personal trainer, explain to him your condition and he'll tell you which exercises you can go heavy on and which you should have more care.
Push ups do ****.
 

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What if I try and get 15 pounds this way and then stop it and eat normally?
 

Freestyler

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I don't think I owe you a response but I just translated it from my desired kgs into pounds.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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