"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Earring Question

Hockey Playa

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I have been debating on and off for well over a year whether or no to get an earring. First i wanted the one at the top of the ear, thought it would be more subtle. Than i saw some people with it , and now i dont like it. All i really want is a subtle little gold loop, i one ear.
Questions: 1.which is ear is the gay one i always forget!
2.How long before you can take it out? i heard you had to leave it in for 6 months before u can take it out ! is this true? i want it to be easily removable, like if i had a job interview or something!


any advice would be appreciatied thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get earrings... get both done.

i have 6 earrings... one on my "gay ear" right lobe... and three on my left lobe... and two on my left cartilage.

its a real convo starter for some reason too... maybe because i have more earrings than some girls.

ummm all earrings are easily removable. it takes about two weeks to fully heal if you keep it clean. and about 6-12 weeks i think for the cartilage to heal.

i got my first piercing at a walmart... then i pierced the rest myself.

the cartilage can be VERY nasty if you don't keep it clean.

if youre planning on getting a job anytime soon, don't do your cartilage.

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btw this belongs in anything else...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get "hoops"... get the small silver ones with pressure balls or w/e its called... you can find those types at stores like hot topic. theyre a bit more expensive then the CZ ones at claires.

the pressure ball ones are usually going to gauge your ear to a 16 or 18... which is plenty enough... i'd say gauge your ears just a TINY bit... stretch only... not from a hallow piercing needle that cuts a small circle into your lobe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Axcell

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I wouldn't get an earing if I were you, it doesn't suit many guys. Get one, no cartilage on your left ear if you are so interested in getting one. Otherwise, I wouldn't get one, far more other places you can improve on.. girls aren't always checking the bling bling on your ear.
 

smooth guy

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Only get an eerring if it looks good on you. Pierce both if it fits your style and again looks good on you.

I only have my left ear pierced and wear a small black diamond earring but personally I'd look too girly with both ears pierced. That means it wouldnt look good on me thus I wouldn't pierce both.

but if you're gonna pierce only one, yeah left ear is supposed to be straight and right is gay :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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