"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Earring Question

Hockey Playa

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I have been debating on and off for well over a year whether or no to get an earring. First i wanted the one at the top of the ear, thought it would be more subtle. Than i saw some people with it , and now i dont like it. All i really want is a subtle little gold loop, i one ear.
Questions: 1.which is ear is the gay one i always forget!
2.How long before you can take it out? i heard you had to leave it in for 6 months before u can take it out ! is this true? i want it to be easily removable, like if i had a job interview or something!


any advice would be appreciatied thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get earrings... get both done.

i have 6 earrings... one on my "gay ear" right lobe... and three on my left lobe... and two on my left cartilage.

its a real convo starter for some reason too... maybe because i have more earrings than some girls.

ummm all earrings are easily removable. it takes about two weeks to fully heal if you keep it clean. and about 6-12 weeks i think for the cartilage to heal.

i got my first piercing at a walmart... then i pierced the rest myself.

the cartilage can be VERY nasty if you don't keep it clean.

if youre planning on getting a job anytime soon, don't do your cartilage.

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btw this belongs in anything else...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get "hoops"... get the small silver ones with pressure balls or w/e its called... you can find those types at stores like hot topic. theyre a bit more expensive then the CZ ones at claires.

the pressure ball ones are usually going to gauge your ear to a 16 or 18... which is plenty enough... i'd say gauge your ears just a TINY bit... stretch only... not from a hallow piercing needle that cuts a small circle into your lobe.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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I wouldn't get an earing if I were you, it doesn't suit many guys. Get one, no cartilage on your left ear if you are so interested in getting one. Otherwise, I wouldn't get one, far more other places you can improve on.. girls aren't always checking the bling bling on your ear.
 

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Only get an eerring if it looks good on you. Pierce both if it fits your style and again looks good on you.

I only have my left ear pierced and wear a small black diamond earring but personally I'd look too girly with both ears pierced. That means it wouldnt look good on me thus I wouldn't pierce both.

but if you're gonna pierce only one, yeah left ear is supposed to be straight and right is gay :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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