"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Earring Question

Hockey Playa

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I have been debating on and off for well over a year whether or no to get an earring. First i wanted the one at the top of the ear, thought it would be more subtle. Than i saw some people with it , and now i dont like it. All i really want is a subtle little gold loop, i one ear.
Questions: 1.which is ear is the gay one i always forget!
2.How long before you can take it out? i heard you had to leave it in for 6 months before u can take it out ! is this true? i want it to be easily removable, like if i had a job interview or something!


any advice would be appreciatied thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get earrings... get both done.

i have 6 earrings... one on my "gay ear" right lobe... and three on my left lobe... and two on my left cartilage.

its a real convo starter for some reason too... maybe because i have more earrings than some girls.

ummm all earrings are easily removable. it takes about two weeks to fully heal if you keep it clean. and about 6-12 weeks i think for the cartilage to heal.

i got my first piercing at a walmart... then i pierced the rest myself.

the cartilage can be VERY nasty if you don't keep it clean.

if youre planning on getting a job anytime soon, don't do your cartilage.

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btw this belongs in anything else...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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if you get "hoops"... get the small silver ones with pressure balls or w/e its called... you can find those types at stores like hot topic. theyre a bit more expensive then the CZ ones at claires.

the pressure ball ones are usually going to gauge your ear to a 16 or 18... which is plenty enough... i'd say gauge your ears just a TINY bit... stretch only... not from a hallow piercing needle that cuts a small circle into your lobe.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Axcell

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I wouldn't get an earing if I were you, it doesn't suit many guys. Get one, no cartilage on your left ear if you are so interested in getting one. Otherwise, I wouldn't get one, far more other places you can improve on.. girls aren't always checking the bling bling on your ear.
 

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Only get an eerring if it looks good on you. Pierce both if it fits your style and again looks good on you.

I only have my left ear pierced and wear a small black diamond earring but personally I'd look too girly with both ears pierced. That means it wouldnt look good on me thus I wouldn't pierce both.

but if you're gonna pierce only one, yeah left ear is supposed to be straight and right is gay :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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