"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dunno bout it-

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ok heres the low down

theres this hb8.5 thats always like sayin hi, even tho i dont talk to her at all, and lately shes been trying harder and harder to get my attention, like she hits my arm n ****.

Yes, i do know her, i chilled at lan cafe at daytime june and july earlier this year , n she was there, n we chilled n ****.

shes like so much younger than me, junior and im senior, thing is her friend is the HB8 i want. im gonna hit it since this is like a free shot that i basically didnt do anything to get - cause i just chilled listenin to hott songs at this lan cafe sumtimes lol.


CLIFFS NOTES
-young hb, short
-want her friend, tall
-gonna hit it, but young


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow. I hope this is a joke. If not I don't know where to start.
 
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I don't think you have enough game to hit it.
 
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lol @ huge trying to be nonchalant over what seems like the first gurl that ever showed interest in him.... Dawg, girls like guys or did you not know this? I know I did, so I don't need you telling me about it in your post :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
 
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Originally posted by McKindley
Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
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3 years younger, and i think just attention *****, cause she like sayin i ignore her when shes around her friends so loud like to me, i gonna avoid this psycho at best.

thx for serious comments mckindley :)
 
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