"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dunno bout it-

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ok heres the low down

theres this hb8.5 thats always like sayin hi, even tho i dont talk to her at all, and lately shes been trying harder and harder to get my attention, like she hits my arm n ****.

Yes, i do know her, i chilled at lan cafe at daytime june and july earlier this year , n she was there, n we chilled n ****.

shes like so much younger than me, junior and im senior, thing is her friend is the HB8 i want. im gonna hit it since this is like a free shot that i basically didnt do anything to get - cause i just chilled listenin to hott songs at this lan cafe sumtimes lol.


CLIFFS NOTES
-young hb, short
-want her friend, tall
-gonna hit it, but young


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow. I hope this is a joke. If not I don't know where to start.
 
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I don't think you have enough game to hit it.
 
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lol @ huge trying to be nonchalant over what seems like the first gurl that ever showed interest in him.... Dawg, girls like guys or did you not know this? I know I did, so I don't need you telling me about it in your post :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
 
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Originally posted by McKindley
Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
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3 years younger, and i think just attention *****, cause she like sayin i ignore her when shes around her friends so loud like to me, i gonna avoid this psycho at best.

thx for serious comments mckindley :)
 
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