"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

dunno bout it-

Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
366
Reaction score
0
ok heres the low down

theres this hb8.5 thats always like sayin hi, even tho i dont talk to her at all, and lately shes been trying harder and harder to get my attention, like she hits my arm n ****.

Yes, i do know her, i chilled at lan cafe at daytime june and july earlier this year , n she was there, n we chilled n ****.

shes like so much younger than me, junior and im senior, thing is her friend is the HB8 i want. im gonna hit it since this is like a free shot that i basically didnt do anything to get - cause i just chilled listenin to hott songs at this lan cafe sumtimes lol.


CLIFFS NOTES
-young hb, short
-want her friend, tall
-gonna hit it, but young


thought comments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

McKindley

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2003
Messages
418
Reaction score
0
Age
44
Location
Charleston, SC
Wow. I hope this is a joke. If not I don't know where to start.
 

Porky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2003
Messages
1,474
Reaction score
0
I don't think you have enough game to hit it.
 

Microphone Fiend

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2003
Messages
2,300
Reaction score
17
Location
Where I be at
lol @ huge trying to be nonchalant over what seems like the first gurl that ever showed interest in him.... Dawg, girls like guys or did you not know this? I know I did, so I don't need you telling me about it in your post :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

McKindley

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2003
Messages
418
Reaction score
0
Age
44
Location
Charleston, SC
Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
 
Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
366
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by McKindley
Ok. If she's only a year or less younger than you I don't think there's enough of an age gap to consider her too young.

So you have what you consider a sure thing with one girl, but you'd rather be with her friend. Knowing the way girls are you should probably go with the girl you know digs you. Because if you try for her friend her friend'll probably turn you down, or at least not mess with you for long. Because her best friend has a thing for you. So you'd have to be Brad Pitt to pull it off.
3 years younger, and i think just attention *****, cause she like sayin i ignore her when shes around her friends so loud like to me, i gonna avoid this psycho at best.

thx for serious comments mckindley :)
 
Top